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The 37 Practices of Bodhisattvas - One-Week Retreat

D6S2 - Self-Cherishing, Honest Speech and Healthy Boundaries

David Oromith · 81 minutes · recorded November 28, 2024

In a meditation on exchanging self-cherishing for cherishing others we weigh putting our own happiness first against treating everyone's welfare as equal. David covers examining one's own faults rather than gossiping about others, when raising real harm differs from criticism born of jealousy, and speech that passes tests of being true, kind and well timed. Questions turn on boundaries, forgiveness and self-neglect.

Comparison and self-cherishing Forgiveness The bodhisattva path Compassion (karuna) The 37 Practices of Bodhisattvas

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